March 21, 2023

Conflict Resolution Practices for Nurses in Unruly Times

The worst of COVID-19 may have passed, but the fallout left in its wake continues to affect our society. The rampant increase in social conflicts since pandemic remains a growing yet under-discussed issue. The National Center for Education Statistics, taken among 846 public schools, revealed that 46% of schools have seen a steady rise in fighting and threats between students, with 56% of schools reporting frequent disruptions due to student misconduct. The airline industry is experiencing surging acts of aggression by passengers. And that situation mirrors the jeopardy that our nation’s nurses also face on a daily basis, though these issues appear less prominently, if at all, in the media. But they cannot be ignored, and it’s time that we talk about conflict prevention and resolution practices to help our struggling healthcare professionals.

The Law of Unintended Consequences

Coined by sociologist Robert K. Merton, the law of unintended consequences describes the outcomes of a purposeful action that are not intended or necessarily foreseen. Consequences can bring unexpected benefits, unexpected drawbacks, or “perverse results” (those that achieve the opposite of the objective and worsen a situation). When the CDC, along with state and local authorities, issued mask mandates, the intent was to help communities rally to ensure the safety of children, seniors, immunocompromised individuals, and others. Instead, we witnessed heightened acts of defiance, belligerence, and even violence over a mild inconvenience. Unfortunately, it’s the talent on the frontlines who usually take the brunt of it. 

Flying the Unfriendly Skies

In September 2021, Hawaiian Air Flight 152 departed for Hilo. It didn’t travel far before a 32-year-old passenger assaulted a flight attendant, allegedly punching her two times. The incident, covered by Greta Bjornson for People, was unprovoked. Just hours later, another Hawaiian Airlines flight was also diverted when a passenger refused to comply with the mask mandate. 

JetBlue crews endured a frightening physical altercation on that same day, according to a story by NPR’s Elena Moore. “The FBI is investigating an incident aboard a JetBlue flight where witnesses say a passenger violently assaulted a flight attendant while attempting to enter the flight galley and cockpit,” wrote Moore. “The passenger reportedly ran to the front of the plane about 45 minutes before touching down in San Juan and yelled for crew members to shoot him. Witnesses told the FBI that after becoming violent, multiple crew members restrained him.”

In the intervening two years since those incidents, little has changed. On March 9, 2023, “Chaos erupted on a Southwest flight in Dallas after a passenger repeatedly punched a man in an attack captured in a viral video,” USA Today reported. Three days before that, “A Massachusetts man aboard a cross-country United Airlines flight on Sunday tried to open the emergency door while the flight was in the air and then tried to stab a flight attendant in the neck.”

Around the same time, we also learned that passengers on a SkyWest flight from Los Angeles to Houston were delayed for over an hour after the flight attendants reportedly got into an argument and refused to work with each other. 

If you check out the FAA’s year-to-date investigations of unruly passenger behavior, the uptick in conflict is stark, unsettling, and unprecedented. 

  • 4,385 unruly passenger reports
  • 3,199 of those incidents were related to mask mandates
  • 789 federal investigations initiated, with 162 cases enforced

Previously, the highest number of reported incidents since 1995 was 310, which occurred in 2004. The figures we’re seeing today represent an 87% increase from annual averages of 150 incidents or fewer.

The interesting thing to note is that the increasing number of assaults, from planes to retail shops, no longer stem from mask mandates, social distancing, and venue closures. In a larger sense, the pandemic has given rise to an environment fertile for sowing the seeds of conflict. The International Crisis Group highlighted the risk of conflict across seven social, political, and economic areas. Several psychological factors contributed: vulnerability among conflict-affected populations, isolation and uncertainty, fear of neighbors and subsequent xenophobia, economic consequences that have strained the relationships between governments and citizens, distrust, perceived oppression or abuse of freedoms by officials, and more. 

“The healthcare setting is a stressful environment, and almost any conflict may be augmented in a disproportional manner,” stated Ariel Braverman BSN, RN, EMT-P in his academic article for Nursing Management, in which he applied aviation crew conflict resolution principles to healthcare. “To model a healthcare setting, it's logical to use another relatively stressful environment: aviation. An aircraft is a tight space with plenty of egos inside a flight deck and the cabin. Similar to healthcare, aircrew members work in an environment where conflict-related disruption may literally cost lives.”

From Toxic Cockpits to Care Units

Braverman cited numerous examples of dysfunctional interactions, personality clashes, and impasses in cockpits that led to disrupted flights or even peril. In one of these illustrations, he referenced a 2021 conflict aboard a Czech air carrier, in which the captain ignored the first officer’s suggestion to divert the flight and land after the plane experienced an uncontained engine failure midflight. The ensuring report described the captain as having a “God complex” and an “inflated sense of invincibility.” Investigators labeled the incident as serious due to lack of conflict resolution management, misjudgment, and the captain’s poor leadership skills. Here, Braverman draws his comparison to high-stress and equally toxic cultures that can manifest in hospitals and care facilities:

​​The initial and most fundamental factor influencing power struggles in healthcare is the historical hierarchy that divides healthcare into physicians and nonphysicians, with physicians being considered an ultimate authority. Due to the development of additional healthcare specialties, healthcare hierarchy has become even more complex, with a subhierarchy among physicians (residents, consultants, interns, and so on) and within other groups, such as NPs versus RNs or LPNs. However, experience and knowledge are critical in decision-making and may cross hierarchical groups. The situation where more than one opinion exists may lead sides into a power struggle over the principle of “who's right” instead of “what's right.”

Conflict Resolution Best Practices for Nurses

Using the aviation industry’s conflict resolution approach, or “crew resource management” (CRM), we can develop an effective strategy for nurses to utilize when disputes arise. This can be particularly critical for travel nurses who are relocating to new environments, new staff, and new personalities. The first step in mitigating, containing, controlling, and preventing the escalation of conflict is to actually identify that it’s happening..

Situational Awareness

  • Extracting information from the environment.
  • Integrating this information with relevant internal knowledge to create a mental picture of the current situation.
  • Using this picture to direct further perceptual exploration in a continual perceptual cycle.
  • Anticipating future events.


  • Being sensitive and aware of cultural differences and influences. 
  • Understanding the roles of each party in the team.
  • Remaining assertive, not aggressive or passive.
  • Active listening and clarifying the feedback you receive from the other person.
  • Stating your concern by expressing your analysis of the situation in a direct manner while owning your emotions about it (“I’m concerned that we may need to use restraints on this patient because of recent outbursts, and I’m worried that one of us could be harmed while attempting to help”).
  • Stating the problem as you see it, based on evidence and observations along with your assessment of the outcomes.
  • Stating a potential solution based on your expertise and experience. 
  • Obtaining agreement or buy-in (“Does this work for you?”).


When encountering conflict with a superior—whether a physician, administrator, manager, or supervisor—followership can ease tensions and foster adoption. Despite the term, followership is not a passive process. Being an effective follower requires a conscious effort. Best practices actually encourage followers to challenge a leader when needed, but this comes with the expectation that followers act responsibly and continually develop their skills. Guidelines for appropriate and efficient followership typically include:

  • Respecting authority
  • Being safe
  • Keeping one’s ego in check
  • Balancing assertiveness and respect
  • Demanding clear assignments
  • Reporting on status of work honestly, including any problems
  • Publicly acknowledging mistakes

Interpersonal Skills

  • Planning
  • Ongoing review
  • Debriefing

Stress Management

  • Acknowledge stressors and understand how they impact ability to perform
  • Eat right, get proper amounts of sleep, exercise, and take other wellness measures to prevent fatigue
  • Consistently monitor your mental state

Error Management

  • Acknowledge that people are error prone, recognizing that anyone, at any time, can make a mistake despite the best of intentions and training; however this excludes errors born from incompetence or gross negligence, which should be reported.
  • Maximize barriers by relying on redundancy, following Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs), and raise awareness of staffing issues (i.e., understaffed units), so that one person's mistake does not escalate into a major crisis.
  • Communicate risks and speak up about any source of danger, including anything that might prevent you from detecting an error, or might make you more likely to commit an error.
  • Always question whether an action is sensible—think logically, not emotionally, and ask yourself questions about what might be lost and gained before committing to an action.

Healthy Compromise

  • Setting ground rules for you and your opponent to agree upon (e.g., no yelling, profanity name calling, or threats of escalated action upfront).
  • Determining and agreeing on a mutually appropriate setting for the meeting.
  • Suggesting possible ways to compromise initially.
  • Being an "ear" for your opponent’s anger and fear (e.g., putting yourself in their shoes, pondering how you would feel in their position, seeing the situation from their perception).
  • Listening and explaining your positions while clarifying what the other person is saying to show interest in resolution and understanding of their viewpoint.
  • Finding the interests behind both of your positions.
  • Looking for win-win alternatives.
  • Staying focused, reasonable, and respectful.
  • Offering solutions that prevent you or your opponent from feeling that someone will "lose face" as a result of the outcome.
  • Encouraging your opponent to help construct the solution rather than dictating what you think it should be.
  • Seeking a third-party mediator (e.g., HR) that will be helpful and impartial, without appearing threatening or clearly favorable to your side.

Nobody wants to deal with friction and conflict. Yet as we’re seeing with alarming frequency, conflict is increasing across many fronts, even in places we may have considered safe. However, as emotions flare and tempers run high, conflicts can be cut short and resolved before widespread damage occurs. The secret is sympathy, demeanor, and healthy compromise. 

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay 

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